Want to become favorite person of everyone? Adopt these top 5 habits.

Favorite Person

There are more than 7 billion people on this planet but very few among them are favorite. You daily interact with many people but how many of them are adorable and your favorite? Every favorite person among different group shares similar characteristics. Like they listen better, careful, laughing, not so pushy. I have noticed that people appear more likeable when the shows above mentioned characteristics.

Unknowingly you might have tried to become favorite person of your group or center of the party. But this is not something you would get by trying for a day. To be favorite person, you have to be genuine by your nature. Just trying for the day or two won’t be enough become a favorite person you want to be. To become a person that person you just need to do little work and dedication. And remember it is not a week or months program. You have to follow these rule as long as you can until they become your habit.

If you have observed, people are known or remember by what they have made you feel not by the words they said. According to survey we only remember person’s behavior or habits for longer time compared to what they have said. So only thing that matters is your behavior and actions.

Consistency of your behavior and action becomes your habit by which you are being remembered.
By continuous observation I have figured out 5 habits that are shared by many favorite persons. Let’s discuss about them. Feel happy if you see few habits on this list that you think in yourself.

1. Favorite people truly care.

In the age of social media where everyone is being self centered, it is difficult to find caring person. Caring is nothing but an act of keeping aside our own interest for a while and helping others. Many times attention and sympathetic word will also works. So it is not so difficult to become caring person. Just decide you are going to care about someone else and be genuine about it. You will find that more people will like you for being careful. Click here to know ways to became a careful person.

2. Favorite person are flexible.

Adjusting to any situation is not so difficult thing to do. Many people won’t be flexible at all. They always need what they wanted and complain about the circumstances when they are not suitable to them. But I have observed that people who shows flexibility in their need, don’t be selfish, don’t push their preferences are most likeable. To adopt this habit you just have to be less complaining about surrounding when it is not suitable for you. You will win people over. Read more about behavioral flexibility here.

3. Favorite people cracks joke.

Many among us shows carefree approach to life. They fill surrounding with their laughter. It is obvious to get attracted to such person. You might not be a good joke cracker but it is also OK to give a good laugh to a Joke. If you see humor in something then appreciate it. Be someone who can laugh easily and smile often.

4. Favorite person are not judgemental.

Sometimes we feel that people around us are passing comments over things that are not comfortable to them. We are unique by our skin color, religion, economic status, any number of attributes and receiving “not so good” comments by people on these things won’t feel appreciated. You might have felt that people who do not judge over small things are more comfortable. Because you can be yourself when they are around you. So try to be same. Don’t be too judgemental about people around you. Click here to read article which states simple method to avoid being judgemental.

5. Favorite person gives compliments.

Everyone likes to hear nice things about themselves. And person who gives genuine compliment becomes our favorite. Providing complement is not so difficult task. You just have to observe/guess the area where person has taken few efforts. For example if someone dressed nicely than usual then try to give compliments like “Hey, you look beautiful today” such simple statement shows appreciation to their efforts. And chances of getting remember of your comment gets higher. Read here few compliments that will make people smile.
So these are top 5 habits of favorite person. Who is your favorite person and why? let me know in the comments section below.